During Jiu-Jitsu class I frequently remind my trainees if it bends it will break. The it being any joint in the body from head to toe.
Your Jiu-Jitsu sets you up to be dangerous on your feet or on the ground. Anything you touch on your opponent should be in jeopardy instantly or within a few seconds. As Coach Matt Thornton, Straight Blast Gym founder and president says, “only one person should be comfortable in a Jiu-Jitsu match”. Meaning that during a fight you should be in a position to inflict damage while being relatively safe from damage.
Within Jiu-Jitsu there is some discussion regarding leg-locks and wrist-locks as it pertains to the rules set forth in some competitions. My thoughts are this, train to be dangerous regardless of rule set. Similar to the saying; I’d rather have it and not need it than to need it and not have it. Read the rules, develop your game plan within the rules given, and then do the best you can. Simple enough.
Without the rules you are free to do as you wish, (within the law…), so be as dangerous as possible. Study and develop a complete Jiu-Jitsu game. It it bends it will break. If someone touches you with malevolent intent, start breaking it. All of it.
We all have had, and continue to have the opportunity to rise to the challenge. We face adversity on a regular occasion whether it’s externally or internally generated.
Sometimes we might find ourselves thinking; not again, or why does this happen to me. I know I have battled those thoughts. With mental state being the most important aspect of this thing we do, we need to keep our mind right. Embrace adversity as an opportunity to show the world you can rise again. Nothing can keep you down, and this is the perfect opportunity to remind the world of this fact.
“Occasions do not make a man either strong or weak, but they show what he is.” — Thomas A Kempis
Adversity doesn’t make you, adversity reveals you. Let the circumstances you are in show the world how badass you are. No matter how bad it looks let those watching see, you got this.
Consistency over time is the real key to the kingdom. There are a lot of programs, and approaches that promise fast results. Some are legit and have something to offer, but nothing in this endeavor comes easy or quickly. There are ways that are more efficient than others to become proficient but there is no way around consistent effort over a long period of time.
I give my Jiu-Jitsu foundations class homework. They are expected to work on fundamental movements everyday on their own. Preferably several times a day. This applies to everything we as multidisciplinary practitioners train.
If you have ever heard me talk about knife defense you’ve heard me mention Jerry Wetzel. Jerry’s Red Zone program is the premier knife defense program. There are a lot of knife programs available, and almost all have some merit. However, the material I trust my life to, (and the life of those that train with me), is Red Zone.
In the spirit of full disclosure, Jerry is a long time friend and we’ve trained together quite a few times over the years. He’s helped me with my programs, and I’ve offered my input regarding his programs over the years. As a result this has driven us to give honest feedback in an effort to offer the best possible service to our trainees. We test and evaluate extensively before we roll something out to the public. We understand the stakes so there is no way we are going to say the comfortable thing rather than the honest thing. Jerry, like all of my friends, shoots it straight and expects the same in return. So when I received a copy of Red Zone Knife Defense I expected excellence, and was not disappointed. Jerry has pressure tested this material for years upon years as well as having guys like myself pressure testing and evaluating the material. The result is a bomb proof approach to dealing with an edged weapon attack. So order a copy of the book, and more importantly get yourself into one of Jerry’s courses so you can experience the material for yourself.
One of the first of many cool sayings I heard as a young man in the fight game was; hit first, hit fast, hit last. I’ve heard this attributed to a number of folks so I really don’t know who I should say I’m quoting. Teddy Atlas? Cus D’Amato? Salim Assili? This would seem to be one of those universal truths that apply to any fighting art. Bottom line, as one that was brand new to the game this was an important lesson for me to learn.
It would seem self-evident but sometimes we need an outside voice to give us permission to make the first move in defense of life and limb. Putting my hands on someone without waiting for them to put their hands on me was a foreign concept. Most of us have been taught by family, friends, and society to avoid throwing the first punch. The person throwing the first punch is always the aggressor therefore, wrong. At this point I realize how wrong I was to accept this as true back then, and after having witnessed a few violent confrontations I can assure you I have no issue throwing the first punch. Think about it this way, how many hits can you take before you’re unconscious? Once unconscious you can no longer defend yourself or your loved ones. Don’t let that happen. You need to act, and act right now. You can solve the legal challenges after the fact, with the help of competent counsel but right now, in the moment when your gut is screaming that something just isn’t right? You gotta get it on before he makes his move.
Excellent analysis from Claude Werner, the Tactical Professor. If you aren’t following his blog, and social media page, you should be.
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One of the things I struggle with is imposter syndrome. That nagging feeling that I’m not really deserving of any accolades, or recognition I might receive. I worry that I’m deep in Dunning-Kruger and as a result don’t know enough to know how much I don’t know.
I don’t know how to stop those thoughts from running through my head. All I know is I train like a madman to make sure I’ve done everything I can do to deserve anything I’m given. I’m actually envious of people that have no clue how much they suck. Their confidence in their non-existent skills has to be a great feeling. I mean that sincerely. I wish I could be that but I can’t. I will continue to struggle with whether I deserve to even wear a black belt, or have anyone listen to anything I say on the topic of self protection.
And I will continue to work my ass off to ensure that those that have trusted me enough to invest their time and effort in passing on their knowledge to me aren’t disappointed. I will continue to work my ass off to make sure folks that trust me enough to train them will find that training valuable.